Why is it so hard for men to just not call Hillary Clinton shrill?

During tonight’s Democratic debate, Bob Cusack, editor-in-chief of The Hill, couldn’t help himself, it seems:

Legendary reporter Bob Woodward said something similar on MSNBC this week:

You can criticize Hillary Clinton on substance so easily! Iraq! Libya! That weird way she defended Wall Street donations by invoking 9/11! And it is especially weird when noted shouter Bernie Sanders is standing right next to her on stage.